Nine simple ways to infuse personality into your wedding

It’s your big day. So it goes without saying that your wedding should reflect your style and your partner’s, as well. While choosing the perfect dress, venue and theme all play a huge role, it’s also the little things that can set your wedding apart from the rest, making it totally unique and tailored to your personality.

Here are some easy ways to infuse your wedding with a style that’s unmistakably yours:

    Save the Date Cards. Sending an early reminder to let everyone know about your special day not only gives your guests plenty of time to clear their calendars, it offers you an opportunity to grab their attention with your own unique design. From traditional to trendy, sophisticated to silly, it’s easy to design save the date cards that are uniquely ‘you’. Add your own special photos and choose from unique card formats like save the date magnets for the fridge, environmentally-friendly postcards, and more.

Thank You Cards. While your big day may be over, it needn’t be forgotten. Sending personalized thank you cards is a great way show appreciation to your guests. Conjuring up memories with a great photo from the wedding gives your correspondence a warm, unique feel.

Food. Wedding food should be delicious, but don’t be afraid to make yours original. Including your favorite foods is a great way to personalize a wedding beyond the traditional entree choices. For example, food stations or food “bars” are becoming hugely popular for that very reason. From mashed potato bars with all the fixings, to strawberry shortcake and s’mores bars, this is an easy way to make your wedding your own.
Decorations. Whether it’s a table-top umbrella inspired by a trip to Bali, a whimsical floral arrangement representing your first date, or anything else you can conjure up, decorations should be all about you. Don’t be afraid to move away from more traditional designs—as long as your choices are tasteful.
Favors. From personalized mint and candy tins, to tealight holders and glass photo coasters, there are so many unique wedding favor ideas out there, it’s hard not to find something that fits your personal style. A quick online search can help you come up with ideas that’ll inspire something that’s truly one-of-a-kind.
Music/Dance. If you want something that’s really ‘you’ and not just another overdone wedding song, be sure to do a quick search for “top wedding songs” of the year and avoid them like the plague. Unless, of course, a particular song has some real meaning to you. Close your eyes and picture yourself walking down the aisle to a particular song. Does it conjure up the emotion you desire? The same rules apply throughout the ceremony and reception. Never choose a piece that doesn’t reflect you – just because someone else likes it better. This is your day.
Cake. From quilted and piped wedding cakes— to traditional, fresh-flower and bejeweled styles, think of your cake as a blank canvas for creativity. But the fact is, you needn’t choose a cake at all! Today’s brides can choose from candy, cereal and cookie buffets, cupcake-cakes, pie assortments, ice cream stations, fresh pastries (with a barista serving custom hot drinks), croquembouche, even carnival food! Just make it your own.
Flowers. Your floral selection should, of course, be a true reflection of you. But keep in mind, there are plenty of alternatives to wedding flowers that may be a better fit. Bauble-filled vases, pots filled with local wildflowers, even carved glass or wood flowers can make beautiful tablescapes. Many brides have chosen bouquets made from feathers, ornate brooches, and even sticks and branches! Look around for something that fits your style.
womens heels. Decorated flip-flops and blinged-out sneakers have become a favorite for brides and bridesmaids after they kick off their uncomfortable heels. But there are so many new ideas out there. From lace foot liners to beaded bare feet, the world is your oyster when it comes to finding unique wedding shoes.

Remember to let the groom express his personality, too! One easy way to stamp a bit of personality on the wedding is by having him choose a totally unique boutonniere. Whether he wants a classic look with a little twist, something handmade, or something totally kitschy and fun, it’s sure to put a smile on everyone’s face.